The Christian response to abortion: clear cut? Probably, not as a much as you might think.
Consider what Spencer Perkins says in his co-authored book More Than Equals:
"Because blacks have not been able to distinguish between white Christians and white non-Christians when it comes to racial issues and separation, major issues like abortion, which should be cut and dried for us, become confused"
At the surface, it may be a fairly straight forward issue: if God forms us while we are still in the womb, He clearly cares about the unborn child as a fully spiritual and physical entity. There are plenty of verses that address His concerns on the matter. Clearly, it is not a trifling issue and, on its own, killing an unborn child is not what God would have for us. But when is it ever 'on its own'?
The life of a fetus is intimately associated with that of the mother carrying it. If it is true that life is sacred, then surely we also hold sacred the life of the mother? It is how we, as Christians, treat this mother that I want to address here.
Demonetization and Difficult Choices
The tendency for Christians to demonize women for the tough choices they have to make is unholy and hypocritical. Take for example the recent rash of racially-targeted billboards that made appearances around the country (shown throughout this post). Rather than offering compassion for mothers placed in difficult situations, these billboards take aim at a vulnerable demographic to further 'otherize,' isolate, and condemn. In addition portraying the reductionist view that a woman is merely a womb (unemotional, unaffected, and unintelligent), these ads ignore the tremendous social and economic factors at play in decisions about abortion.
Undeniably, the rates of abortion are higher among low-income mothers. Does this trend result from some morbid psychological dysfunction of the lower class that causes impoverished mothers to act against thousands of years of maternal instinct? Certainly not!
How heart-breaking to ponder the mother who feels she must abort a baby she wants and loves, but whom she cannot afford to keep. How callus of us, as of society, to demand she take the baby to term, yet provide her no access to affordable health care, wretched housing conditions, a failing educational system, and a broken foster care system that would make any mother despair of her "choices" (I have previously touched on some of the barriers facing the poor).
If you force a woman to carry the child to term, will you also be there to support the child once it is born? Will you take responsibility for making sure it is well nourished, that is has access a doctor and medication when it gets the chicken pox, that it may attend a safe and productive educational environment? Or will you force the issue of this child's sanctity, only to abandon it once it reaches this side of the cervix?
To show contempt for one of these mothers is to punish her for the greater societal shortcomings for which we are all responsible. We speak in terms of 'pro-life' and 'pro-choice,' but we know the world is more complicated than that. By claiming a 'pro-life' stance, we semantically condemn thousands of struggling women as being 'pro-death.' Have we no compassion?
Along these lines, hear what Lise Wade at Sociological Images has to say:
Many women have abortions because they cannot afford to raise a(nother) child. They would bring the fetus to term if only they weren’t all-but-crushed under the burdens of under-served neighborhoods, shitty public education, a dearth of jobs that pay a living wage, a criminal justice system that strips inner cities of husbands and fathers, a lack of health care, and stingy, penalizing, and humiliating social services (when they can get them). So telling black women that they are bad; telling them that they are killing their race alongside their babies, is twisting a knife that already penetrates deep in the black community...
...And no they cannot “wait until they’re in a better place financially” or “not have sex until they can afford to raise a child” because many, many women will never be in such a place in their entire lives. And they can’t just “practice responsible contraception” because half of all pregnancies are unintended, at least a third among even the most well-educated and resource-rich women. So pregnancies will and do happen, even to people who don’t want or can’t have a child.
If pro-life groups want to stop abortion, they need to stop accusing black women of moral bankruptcy and start putting those billboards up across from the Capital Building. What black women need isn’t an ethics lesson, they need resources. They need those very same people who tsk tsk them to stand up for them, to fight for a living wage, investments in their schools and communities, protection instead of criminalization, more available and better subsidized child care, and guaranteed parental leave benefits for all...If black women had those things, then they might feel like that had a choice to keep their baby, just as they have a choice to abort their fetus. It’s not the parents who fail to care-about-the-children in America, it’s a government and it’s citizens that allow 1 in 5 to languish in poverty.
A Racialized Debate
Many of the recent billboard ads were specifically placed in, and targeted to, the black community. Adding abortion to the growing list of racialized social ills is not only false (there is no single racial demographic that leads abortion rates), but perpetuates the hyper-polarized, 'us vs. them' notions of the white-savior mentality. The self-righteous nature of these white-funded, racially targeted ads are exploitative and holier-than-thou, again showing little regard for the social context to which we have all contributed. By shaming black mothers and ignoring the the disparity to which we would subject their children, we perpetuate centuries of institutionalized bigotry, particularly in relation to our history of reductionist attitudes toward black women.Pander and exploit, much?? |
Furthermore, the Christian community must understand the dangers in which we place women (and men) when we insist that sex-education and condom-usage are abominations. Do not praise the Hispanic community, for example, for a conservative catholic stance against contraception, but then be surprised when women cry out for the right to have a say in what inevitably comes next.
It's Never 'Black and White'
We, as Christians, should also examine the shame that we heap on a woman even when she does choose to keep her baby. Who among us would be comfortable church-shopping as an unwed pregnant mother? Would the church you currently attend truly be a welcoming environment? Or would there be stares and snickers? Yet we expect women to brave our derision to in order to circumvent our damnation.
The rates of unintended pregnancies themselves vary with economic status, and are often a function of health care access, education access, family stability. Rather than blaming the victim and sanctimoniously deriding 'irresponsible and naive women,' perhaps we should work as partners to improve the circumstances under which these pregnancies occur. Even in the best of situations, we know every contraceptive has a known 'failure rate'--surely, then, we know it isn't the woman that has failed. Let us stop treating her that way.
Created in response the billboards shown above |
So knowing how difficult it can be for our sisters, let us have some grace. Let us not be nominal in our support, while still sending a message of shame, humiliation and vast separation from the Lord. Instead, let us lavish love and resources on those that must live with difficult choices and the daily consequences of a broken world.
this my friend is a good post. and you are a great writer
ReplyDeleteGreat post, Katelin! If you haven't read it already, I would recommend _Killing the Black Body: Race, Reproduction, and the Meaning of Liberty_ by Dorothy Roberts (Permalink: http://amzn.com/0679758690 ). I read it for my Sex, Power, & Politics class at Jepson and it turned upside down my understanding of "choice" and the government's involvement or lack of involvement.
ReplyDeleteOn behalf of Andrea:
ReplyDelete"Wow, Katelin, thank you for this. Well said."
On behalf of Mierka:
ReplyDelete"This is very well thought out and written. When you were talking about the billboards that were race specific it made me realize that a lot of the anti-abortion advertisement I see near where I live is focused on the Latino population. Thank you for this reflection on such a difficult topic."
On behalf of Shannon:
ReplyDelete"Hey Katelin, EXCELLENT post, wow. I really admire the honesty, thoughtfulness, and information you present in this post. We also have to keep in mind that many women, particularly from the Hispanic community, are not given a say as to any sort of family planning, contraceptive options, etc. by their spouses. To put it bluntly, they are kept pregnant and in the household for years on end, oftentimes robbing them of any opportunity to make a headway in this country: learn English, learn how to drive, make their own money, pursue education, etc. And yet they are so often chastised, particularly among those of higher socioeconomic status and education: "When will those "Mexican" women EVER stop pumping them out!!
Also, on a personal side note, I would have to say that one of the biggest turn offs about "white" mainstream American Christianity is exactly the hypocrisy and lack of compassion you talk about in the post. Thanks for being such a breath of fresh air."
I appreciate your careful consideration of multiple viewpoints, and your thoughtful way of re-framing the dichotomous viewpoints so firmly constructed so as to seem the only options, when clearly it is so complicated.
ReplyDeleteMany thanks for this post!
On behalf of Brant:
ReplyDelete"Adoption is also a wonderful way to allow these children to live. I have many friends that can't have children and have a very difficult, sometimes impossible time adopting because abortion is much more popular and their are fewer and fewer children to adopt. The adoption agencies pay for the well being of the mother during pregnancy as well as medical bills."
Very true that adoption can be a great option. Unfortunately, there is also a lot of disparity when it comes to this alternative as well. Certain children are simply considered 'more desirable' than others.
ReplyDeleteChildren with certain kinds of families, skin colors, and histories are disproportionately favoured, leaving large numbers of less fortunate children in the lurch. It is especially true for children of color, of low socio-economic background, and of disadvantaged neighbourhoods. Even more so if there is a possibility that there may have been drug/alcohol use or poor prenatal care any time in the pregnancy. It is incredibly difficult to find adoptive parents for these children, reinforcing to the mother that her child is undesirable. How tragic! Should she decide to go ahead and give for adoption, and the baby can't be placed, it will be shuffled from one foster home to another, with all of the psychological problems that can come from that struggling system.
Perhaps with a few more protections and equality in place in the system. Parents could be matched with children in such a way that is win-win, but it isn't happening currently.
On behalf of Brant:
ReplyDelete"I think that with the increase in abortions, this phenomenon is happening less. Two of my friends as well as my sister-in-law had to wait for 1-3 years to be able to adopt any child due to the high frequency of parents wanting to adopt, the fewer children to be adopted, and the huge increase in cost of adopting internationally. In all 3 circumstances they adopted a child that was from a poor SES, african-american family or from a mother that was a drug addict."
"Your article was wonderfull and thought provoking. Thank you for continually posting things that make us think! I love reading them!"
I think you are right that disparity is decreasing, which is really great. Much of the system is improving. Unfortunately, though there just aren’t enough people like your friends/family, and too many that would prefer no child to a disadvantaged one. There remains a preponderance of older children, children of color, and children with handicaps (mental and physical) that await parents. With grace, perhaps that can continue to change.
ReplyDeleteI have seen some studies saying that abortion has decreased the number of children available for adoption, but others that disagree. Studies by Madelyn Freundlich, have shown that although adoption rates have stayed about the same over the years, abortion rates have declined, suggesting the opposite trend, if anything. I dunno…I am sure it can be interpreted every which way, depending on the hypothesis.
SN: we know that adoption can be extremely expensive, which means that only people with resources can do it. I wonder if too much financial incentive to birth mothers would be coercive-- sell one’s body for the sake of the rich (a la kidneys etc). I don’t know if this is farfetched, but it does cross my mind when I think about mothers who are forced to quit their jobs because of pregnancy and then need an income.
Regardless, I agree with you absolutely that whenever it is feasible, adoption is certainly preferable to abortion.
Very true that adoption can be a great option. Unfortunately, there is also a lot of disparity when it comes to this alternative as well. Certain children are simply considered 'more desirable' than others.
ReplyDeleteChildren with certain kinds of families, skin colors, and histories are disproportionately favoured, leaving large numbers of less fortunate children in the lurch. It is especially true for children of color, of low socio-economic background, and of disadvantaged neighbourhoods. Even more so if there is a possibility that there may have been drug/alcohol use or poor prenatal care any time in the pregnancy. It is incredibly difficult to find adoptive parents for these children, reinforcing to the mother that her child is undesirable. How tragic! Should she decide to go ahead and give for adoption, and the baby can't be placed, it will be shuffled from one foster home to another, with all of the psychological problems that can come from that struggling system.
Perhaps with a few more protections and equality in place in the system. Parents could be matched with children in such a way that is win-win, but it isn't happening currently.
I think you are right that disparity is decreasing, which is really great. Much of the system is improving. Unfortunately, though there just aren’t enough people like your friends/family, and too many that would prefer no child to a disadvantaged one. There remains a preponderance of older children, children of color, and children with handicaps (mental and physical) that await parents. With grace, perhaps that can continue to change.
ReplyDeleteI have seen some studies saying that abortion has decreased the number of children available for adoption, but others that disagree. Studies by Madelyn Freundlich, have shown that although adoption rates have stayed about the same over the years, abortion rates have declined, suggesting the opposite trend, if anything. I dunno…I am sure it can be interpreted every which way, depending on the hypothesis.
SN: we know that adoption can be extremely expensive, which means that only people with resources can do it. I wonder if too much financial incentive to birth mothers would be coercive-- sell one’s body for the sake of the rich (a la kidneys etc). I don’t know if this is farfetched, but it does cross my mind when I think about mothers who are forced to quit their jobs because of pregnancy and then need an income.
Regardless, I agree with you absolutely that whenever it is feasible, adoption is certainly preferable to abortion.
An interesting perspective: http://blog.nj.com/njv_editorial_page/2012/05/why_i_perform_abortions_a_chri.html
ReplyDeleteI like to tell people that I'm pro-life inside and out of the womb. Save for rape, inscest and endagernment to the mother, most abortions occur because the mother doesn't have the means to raise her children. If all mothers and their children had access to quality healthcare, day care, and education, the amount of abortions, I believe, will decrease significantly.
ReplyDeletethe foster care system should be reformed. I think there needs to be more background checks on foster parents. I also think there should be more regulations on orphanages to ensure that the orphans go to school so that they can progress in their lives.
ReplyDeleteIt always amazes me how loud the calls for sanctity of life before birth, and how silent afterward! As you mention, so many systemic issues contribute!
ReplyDeleteFoster care reform does indeed seem like a much needed step
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